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How to contact your Filipino pen-friend

(1) After you have examined the photos and made your choice, contact us via any of the E-mail addresses shown and we will reply with some of their personal details within 24 hours. You can copy their image from this web site by RIGHT CLICKING on your mouse and saving the image to your floppy or hard disk drive.

(2) There will be a small charge to cover web-site administration and postage costs. When the fee has been received, we will send you details of where to write to them, either in the Philippines or if they are currently residing or working outside of the Philippines, their overseas address. Some have phone numbers as well.

The cost per address is:

USA. $3.20 or $30.00 for 10 Addresses

UK. £2.00 or £20.00 for 10 Addresses

(At present, payment Method is by check, postal order, or international money order only.)

Useful tips about letters

Your initial letter is always crucial, since first impressions are always very important.

Honesty is the best policy! Be sincere with your letters. All Filipino ladies place a very high value on integrity and faithfulness. They specifically disapprove of drunkenness and men who are full of B...S... !!

Most of the young ladies are from the provinces and all have high moral character. They have not been exposed to negative outside forces or the 'Big City' vices. They will take anything that you tell them at face value. When you introduce yourself to them, be sure to paint a positive portrait of yourself.

Age is not a problem. It is a fact that most of the ladies prefer older gentlemen. The reason for this is stability. Older gentlemen in their opinion, are less likely to 'stray', especially if they are married to a young and beautiful Filipino lady!

Your type of employment is not important, the fact that you have a job and earn money for food and housing is the main thing. You can however embellish your job title if you feel you need to. A toilet cleaner for example could be a Sanitation Engineer!

Please remember do not ask sexually explicit questions, as most of the ladies have a deeply religious background. Always show a strong interest in her. Ask lots of questions.

HOW TO GET A RELATIONSHIP GOING

Use a unique approach as some of these ladies may be friends and might share their correspondence. If you write to many ladies, the chances that you will find your soul mate will increase. Their photographs do not always do them justice as some are too small to be scanned properly and the definition is not always ideal. Once you start writing to them, you will probably receive many photos of much better quality. I would recommend that you write to at least 10 ladies initially. Just as you eliminated many women by the way they look, some ladies are going to eliminate you on what you say. If you choose say 10 ladies, you may eliminate 5 on their responses. Be positive ! There is someone out there for you! I personally corresponded for nearly two years before eventually meeting and later marrying my Filipino pen-friend. We now have a three year old son and are very happy.

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