TVChix

Well, after hearing about them for ages I thought I'd give TVchix a go and see what it was like. So I joined, got approved and started to look round... well it's not really that shocking but blimey are there lots of people just looking for sex or what !(BTW, it's NOT the reason I joined!)

Now I'm not a prude in any way (cos that would just be totally hypocritical), but (hmmm, if you say "but" after saying "I'm not a prude" does that mean your a prude?) the thing that gets me is the totally blatant way some people seem to advertise themselves! Hey, maybe it's just that I can't see the attraction to someone being so blunt and with such dumb names as "Bigus Dickus" (OK I know no one would choose that unless they loved Monty Python way too much but you get the idea?) I dunno, it confuses me.

It reminds me of one time going to Transmissions. There were loads of admirers there and most of them were alone and ignored. Why? Well most of them had turned up looking scruffy, unshaven and looked as if they had just stopped working on their decorating (now I look like that a lot but not when I'm planning to go out). Now the admirers who seemed to be successful were dressed nicely, were polite and were not learing(?) at all the T-Girls. Lesson being- look nice, look as if you care and smile and be friendly and you'll be hellishly suprised :)

Of course, I'm probably being horrendously niave, after all TVChix is for all sorts of meetings (including the sexual ones) and some people probably find the whole bluntness refreshing... each to their own.

This post may seem like a criticism of TVChix but honestly it's not and I really hope it's not taken that way. I admire the people who dedicate their time and money to helping lots of people and the site caters for such a diverse group of people. The site is huge and so much still to look at with what appears a good community. Maybe I've just been in too many safe and secure groups before. The post is just a comment really on the fact I can't understand why people aren't more subtle about things? Why do people have to write "I have a 10 inch ****". What's the point? Is it just male ego? Is it just showing off.. is it exageration...

Ah hell, what does it matter? People will write what they want and be as blunt as they want.

Luckily there also seems to be a lot of people just looking for friendships and people to go out with which is why I joined and they look as if they think pretty similar thoughts to me as well.

So here goes and hopefully my delete key won't get too worn out :)

I'll let you know how things go... but at the moment I'd definately recomend joining TVChix, unless you are easily shocked that is!

Eventually

Well, things seem to have finally come together and I've finally managed to get this site up and running. Hopefully I will also be updating this blog more often than I have in the last year or so! Actually I'm trying to work out what I'm going to be doing as the blog is seperate from the journal and the journal is the place I've been putting my diary, where I've been etc. I think the blog may be a place to write any thoughts? Dunno... we'll see!