... I say this because many people are afraid to loc simply because they think that once they start --thats the end result.
And then you get others who feel that they have 'failed' by cutting off or undoing their locs.
Worst of all, you might get people who will put other people down for wanting to change the locs into loose napptural hair again.
Its this simple:
Your nappy hair will grow, whether you have it in locs or not.
If tomorrow, you change your mind --its up to you.
As with all internal journeys - Some will last a lifetime and some will end during the lifetime. When the heart says its time, then you should follow. It is the same with the locing process. You will just know when and how to go about your journey.
Part of the loc freedom and healthy attitude is that you are in charge of what you want to do with your hair. There are no rights and wrongs on how you have to be... No rules to how things will form. There is only trust in what comes next.
Maybe in the days when you had the relaxer, you felt you HAD to get it done or look a certain way... Maybe you have always felt that you need to appear a certain way just because you have locs...
Now is the time to free your Self from what is expected and get your thoughts to what you want to be accepted. Free up that mind.
On my quest for being loced for life, I saw that in time things might change, or might not. To be honest, I do feel that my locs will always be a part of me --but that is because it is my choice. At this moment, I do not feel fullfilled in my journey...There is more to come! But in time, this might change or never change. I will trust the process
Saying all this, the process to go through the whole journey from baby locs to mature locs is a comittment. But it doesn't mean that you don't have any other option in the future to change.
It is very possible to undo your locs even as far as a few years from the start date of locing.
An example:
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This lovely napptural decided to undo her locs and was left with a wonderful healthy head of natural hair at year 4 of the locing journey.
This lady is one of the many locers I have come across you have seen change by choice... by heart choice.
I recently heard a lady say that after a few years of locing, she decided to take a break and cut her locs to experience loose naptural hair again.... After enjoying the loose hair stage (which lasted 2 years or so), she then went to sew her locs back in and continue her loc journey. And her locs are absolutely beautiful and long now at year 10 of the journey.
You should be locing because you are at a stage where you feel it is right for you -- For whatever reason you may have. Every locer is an individual with their own reasons. So enjoy that choice!
NAPPY FREEDOM -- FREEDOM OF CHOICE.
Your locs are beautiful.
But the freedom to have that choice to be whatever you feel without society's standards on you, is real beauty!
...Haven't we had enough of people imposing their beauty standards on us in the past?
It is our body.
Its time to heal and live in choice.