Conversing

Conversing

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Conversing with others in an RP is a very important thing, because without it there would be no point in RPing, correct?  However simple talking to another character MAY seem, there is actually a lot of skill required to do it correctly.  

I, however, can converse very well.

No you can't.

Yes I can.

No you can't.

Yes I can!

Only because your schizophrenic.

Am not.

Then why are you talking to yourself right now?

Well... well... I don't know, really.

Then get back on with the guide, would you?

Right, sorry about that...

  1. Quiet Characters  
  2. Talkative Characters
  3. Tone Of Voice
  4. Multiple People
  5. Give/Get Cycle

Quiet Characters

When RPing with other people, you have to be careful not to make them drag on the RP for you.

Quiet characters can be fun to RP, if you are up to the challenge.  However... they can be one of the most annoying sorts of people to run into.

If you start RPing with a quiet character (who doesn't know how to RP) then you'll end up dragging along the RP like a dead dog on a leash.  It just... doesn't work.   The bad quiet character RPers simply state nothing, or if they do its a simple yes or no.  Then they just sit there, staring blankly, doing nothing at all.  If this ever happens, simply make up an excuse and have your character leave.  It is pointless to try to RP with someone like this.

HOWEVER... there are those who can RP good, quiet characters.  These people use actions instead of words to portray their character, and they help drag the RP as well.  Although they do not verbally communicate, they do talk nonverbally, therefore giving the other person something to reply to.  This sort of RP is successful.

So there are two warnings... 1. If you RP a quiet character, you better be good with actions   2. If you get stuck with a silent RPer, don't hassle yourself into all that stress of carrying on an entire RP by yourself

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Talkative Characters

Talkative Characters are the opposite of quiet characters... and they can be just as bad.  

Talkative Characters are the people who blab on and on and on... but that isn't the bad part.  That's alright, as it could be a personality flaw.

However, what they DO do, is they switch from topic to topic 400 times per RP.  When responding to such behavior, it's nearly impossible to have it all make sense.  One second you're talking about the tavern and the next about the evil dragon next door. 

It gets confusing, and it isn't fun to RP with.  Give the person a chance to reply to.  Your posts shouldn't be made up of all speaking, in fact, that should be the smallest part.  You want detail and inner feelings, not just words that have been spoken.  

It's a hard balance to find, but once you do, you're in the advanced RPer club.  Not to mention people won't run in the opposite direction whenever you ask to RP with them...

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Tone Of Voice

Whenever you are in an RP where you are conversing with someone else, your tone of voice is ALWAYS an important detail to have.  It can be the difference between joking, an insult, sarcasm, or a serious comment.  Without notifying the reader of what your character's voice sounds like, they cannot determine the true meaning of the statement.

Not to mention its a detail that can add a lot to the reader's image of the scene.  It's easy to just say "Sally said"... but you could make it a lot more hearable just with a few more words:  "Sally said, her voice high-pitched and whiny as if someone was plugging her nose".  Not only can you actually hear the voice, but you learn a little something about Sally.  She's probably a snob.

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Multiple People

Whenever you are in an RP with multiple people, you have to be careful of how you carry it about.  It can be a very entertaining and skill increasing experience, or it can be a living nightmare.  There is one basic rule that should be followed at all times, whenever the number of people in an RP exceeds 2.

Lets say Sally starts the topic.  Joe replies.  And Holly replies as well.  That's three people.  That should be your big flashing light bulb over the head moment... "THREE PEOPLE!  WAIT! CASSANDRA SAID TO DO SOMETHING WITH OVER 2 PEOPLE!"

It's good to know someone listens.  Now then, who should the next poster be?  *Jeopardy music plays* *buzzer sounds* WRONG!  The next poster should be Sally.  Then Joe.  Then Holly.  The same order that it was originally... but I'm sure you noticed the pattern, correct?

You never, ever, want to skip a person's turn in an RP.  It isn't fair that they miss out simply because they weren't online at that moment in time.  Have patience, and join another RP while you wait. 

With a set order it is a lot more organized, and you don't have to worry about someone posting at the same time as you, and then having to modify your posts to match the other's response.   The only time you should skip a poster's turn is if they have had a day or so to reply, but have not done so.  

It's all a matter of patience, and giving respect to those in your RP.  Give them a chance to get on, and reply.  Until then, wait your turn, and go give the admin some money.

No, that wasn't a joke.  I was being serious. 

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Give/Get Cycle

One of the main parts of RPing with other people is called the "Give/Get Cycle".  In other words, you get what you give, and you give what you get.  If you post one paragraph RP's, with no detail, nothing about what your character is feeling, no spoken words... then that's what you're more then likely going to get back.

You want to make your RP's replyable.  Meaning, you want other people to be able to reply to your posts.  You can't just expect them to carry on the conversation as well as the RP, you have to contribute.  Even if it's just in an action.

Reaching your hand out for a handshake is better then staring blankly at the person, saying hello but doing nothing else.  By interacting with each other, you both have a MUCH easier time writing RP's with detail and length.

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